Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagLj,Im all for any meaningful reform. That sounds like a decent plan. I can see long term benfit in a jobs program and if we have to daycare for a year or two until they find their feet .......Im fine with that. It makes far more sense that, what I believe we have now, and that is a program on top of redundant(was that redundant?lol)program that doesnt "teach them to fish".
Understand that Im conservative but do not remotely consider myself a republican(anymore).Im not an anti-capitalist enviromentalist like the far left,Im a conservationist and love nature and think we can responsibly use her resources but not destroy her. Im all for caring for our disabled and elderly(if the elderly dont have huge retirement plans).Im all for a reasonable safety net for those that fall on hard times as long as it doesnt perpetuate their dependence.Im torn on gay marriage ONLY because I see it as a stepping stone to having homosexual indoctrination in our schools.I want everyone to have equal rights but the Gay rights folks are pushing too hard-just like some people dont think religion should be taught in schools because it doesnt represent somthing they agree with and want to handle that with their kids themselves,I feel that way about homosexuality.The school has no bussiness advocating for a certain sexuality just as they have no bussiness advocating a certain religion.Both are choices you make as to how you want to live your life-thats how I see it anyway.
Dont be so defensive!lol I know I come on strong and I am very passionate but I dont follow a party line and Im not unreasonable. Youve been around enough to know how I think,you may disagree but I hope you can see Im not just mean and stuck in the dark.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagOde - How about taking the current welfare money to pay for day care for the kid(s) while the parent(s) are required to work. If no one will hire them, the government
can have some sort of "last resort" jobs they'll be required to take. Something along the line of picking up roadside trash, helping paint and repair homes for elderly and disabled, etc. Nothing too cushy - this way they'll be motivated to leave the mandatory government work and find a better job in the private sector. Wouldn't cost more than the government
is already paying, every able-bodie d person would work, the kids would have minimal safe care. Meanwhile, the former welfare parents - now working parents - are paying their share of taxes, Social Security, etc. What do you think? I'm dead serious.
Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagHunger may be a great motivator but only for the short term? Isnt the idea to help people NOT BE HUNGRY VERY LONG BECAUSE THEY LEARN TO HELP THEMSELVES
?You guys approach this as if we are talking about disabled people that are unable to work.Not only that you guys are defending a REDUNDANT program that PAYS TO FEED KIDS WE ALREADY PAID TO FEED ONCE. I can see now why our government
doesnt work efficientl y......whe n it fails to achieve the goal,inste ad of looking at ways to improve or reform the current program they just throw more money at it.....wha ts worse than that is a lot of you people see NO PROBLEM with that philosophy ! Like NF says "Theres plenty of money!"
WOW!
Nightflier, 5 months ago | FlagHunger a great motivator,
huh? I'm not sure she would have any first-hand knowledge of hunger. She looks a little plump in that pink pepto-bism ol getup . . . Rather than her being wrong or incosidera
te, it's more insensitiv e. Only a clod would make such a comment in this current day and age. And, there but for the grace of G-d, go many of us. With the billions of dollars in taxpayer money currently flowing into the government
, there is more than enough to ensure no one goes hungry. The new poverty minimum should be raised to $30K per year. A net income from such a salary even then may not be enough.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagHunger may be motivation
al in the short term, but quickly leads to apathy. It takes a minimum level of calories before there is any conversion to energy. If anyone doubts that, take a longer look next time you see photos of people living through a famine in Africa. Speaking of which, there is a big threat of another one soon in Ethiopia because of a dramatic increase in grasshoppe
rs recently.
Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagHere is the crux of where we disagree.
nemo says that the congresswoman is basically unfit to be in her position because she believes "hunger is a great motivator".
Is she wrong? Uncompassionate?
We should all be able to agree that welfare and dependence is generational......right?
We have spent TRILLIONS of dollars on the "war on poverty",and little has changed AND we have actually helped to KEEP PEOPLE TRAPPED IN THAT CYCLE........right? Is that compassionate? I think its cruel in a certain way!These people will rarely IF EVER see THEIR OWN VALUE AND ABILITY TO CONTRIBUTE TO THEIR OWN SUCCESS.That makes me very sad.......it should you as well.
nemo says Rep Davis should be romoved from the commitee?????? I wonder who else shares her WISDOM on how to truly end poverty and actually HELP these people in a meaningful way...........
"Those who would help the poor should make them uncomfortable in their poverty." - Ben Franklin Wise man.
nemokc, 5 months ago | FlagA few (hopefully) last words on this post:
Ladyjean gave an exceptional comment on why it is impractical to monitor parenting. It's costly (much more so than any food program) and it's difficult to quantify "good parenting". (I can assure you that everyone would have a different idea about what should qualify a parent for jail time.
And while I appreciate jstol3's eagerness to pay more taxes for jail and foster care through sin taxes (I immediately volunteer on-line poker winnings & support legalizing marijuana for the same reasons as him) the real need is foster care families. (Like I've often said, don't be pro-life unless you are willing to adopt a black crack baby with AIDS) Quality foster care homes are in short supply.
And while we all agree that aid programs are abused...ladyjean, myself and others who have commented believe that the good these programs do outweigh the cost of the waste from abuse.
Now for some clarification on the original post (which was not meant to discuss the validity of government aid)
First, this is NOT a new program! This has been a part of the Department of Agriculture for some time now. It has already seen extensive use throughout Missouri (and the rest of the nation)
My comments were not to justify the program. I would think that it would go without comment. (And with over 450 Views only jstol3 & oddesecon have complained about it.)
What did upset me (and it should upset you) are the comments on the program by Rep. Davis. The woman in charge of the committee who advises the state legislature on laws concerning children writes things like "Hunger can be a great motivator"!
If her district wants to keep electing her...that reflects on them. But I personally do not want her to chair the committee on Children & Families. And that's why I ask everyone to contact their state legislator to lobby the Speaker of the House to remove her from her post!
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagI'll agree with the legalize marijuana suggestion
. As you said, it makes sense on a number of fronts - raising revenue instead of spending it on policing and prosecutin g users/free ing up court time and prison space, etc. It would take some advance legislatio
n, though, to help keep users relatively safe in their homes rather than on the roads endangerin g others while they're on a good high. A lot like drunk drivers, who also need some more beefed-up controls. But all in all, a very intriguing
suggestion . Could it ever be sold to the religious right?
jstol3, 5 months ago | FlagMaybe we could decriminalize some "fad" crimes like marijuana use and tax the marijuana. That frees up jailspace and brings in more revenue.
I'm no marijuana fan but let's be realistic - its not going to go away just because we wish it would.
One consequence of legalizing marijuana would be that the Mexican drug cartels that operate on our border would lose a lot of revenue (a good thing). It might just cut down ILLEGAL immigration (another good thing).
Decriminalizing a lot of things might bear looking at. Special interest groups have managed to get so many things criminalized that I'm surpried that we aren't all in jail.
What is more important than a child? Why do we hesitate to make parents more responsible for bringing them into the world?
Conservatives are so much about "pro-life" and Liberals are so much about "pro-choice". After the kids are born why don't we force the parents who made the choice be responsible? Why?
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagMaking parents more responsibl
e is a great idea, but how do you implement it? Jails are already overcrowde d, courts are overworked , as are foster care programs. The government beaurocrac y that would have to be created to monitor all these people would be mind-boggl ing in both size and price. And the notion of parental "irrespons ibility" would be almost impossible to objectivel y quantify. Responsibi
lity begins and ends in the home. Schools can't teach it - it's already too late. So unless each responsibl e parenting family can make the effort to work one-on-one with an irresponsi ble parenting family, I see this situation at a stalement unless someone, somewhere, comes up with a WORKABLE plan,
jstol3, 5 months ago | Flagnemo -
Where did you get the idea that I thought you play poker with children? I certainly didn't say that. You do play with the parents of children though. You would have to obey a good conscience and give them their money back at the end of the game so the kids wouldn't suffer the loss wouldn't you? How could you sleep at night knowing that the parent had lost more than he or she could afford?
I know what you said about hiring people on this blog but what about mnaines? Why didn't you hire him? He needs a job.
No, we shouldn't abandon the children. I have a better idea. Let's make the parents responsible for raising their own kids. What? Yes, lets make them be responsible! I know that it's easier to make a bunch of poor schmucks pay out their tax dollars to feed someone else's kids but, instead, how about if we do the right thing and make the parents be responsible. You have a kid you gotta be responsible for its food, clothes, school, housing, etc, etc. I know that's hard but it's right. People might actually start taking pride in themselves and their abilities and their families one more. Let's give them jail time when they don't. I'll gladly pay my tax dollars to raise a child in a foster home while the irresponsible parent languishes in jail. It would be better than this never-ending cycle of court appearances, slaps on the wrist, etc for offenders while the rest of us pay for their sins.
Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagThis is not complicated.
1.Everyone has agreed and LJ gave a number of examples that the programs are abused.
2. Neither jstol or myself EVER said ANYTHING about abolishing these programs based on the rampant abuse.Reform IS in order.We all agree on that.
3. Do these programs help people that really need them?YES.Do ALL people that benefit from them abuse them? NO!
4.Did this debate( ARGUMENT) start because jstol said "all these programs should be abolished because of abuse!"??? NO!This debate started because jstol said" No child SHOULD go hungry when we have the social safety net WE ALREADY HAVE and MANY programs available to help people"(paraphrasing)
5. Did facts show that a family of four can eat three meals a day DURING THE SUMMER( they ONLY need two during the school year-maybe ONE if the school has a breakfast PROGRAM).So Nemos discontent and attempt to demonise congresswoman is out of line when you consider the FACT that the government PROVIDES FOOD YEAR ROUND IF YOU NEED IT!
6.Have we got to the point that we will accept abuse of the system that will allow children to suffer BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS ARE GUILTY OF ABUSING THE SYSTEM? Do we simply THROW MORE MONEY AT IT HOPING IT GETS BETTER? Why not look at ways to reform THE CURRENT SYSTEM,you know.......the ONE THAT ALREADY PROVIDES THREE MEALS A DAY,EVEN IN SUMMERTIME...........,in effort to limit the abuse?
7. Ask yourself.......is it possible that you let your emotional response to "hungry" children,cloud your ability to see #1Their parents are incapable of caring for them on a meaningful basis?#2Taxpayers HAVE ALREADY PAID TO FEED THESE KIDS ONCE.#3It makes NO SENSE to throw MORE MONEY AT IT,when we could find a way to insure benefits get to the children.
8. Can we agrre that if parents qulaify for food stamps that there is NO REASON kids should go hungry.?Other than abuse of the system?
A possible solution: Instead of spending $9.5 million NEW dollars,why not have the social worker that approved food benfits in the first place seek children that are malnurished and if abuse of the system is found......Take away the kids portion of benfits and set up voucher system that can be used at a local "soup kitchen"that can turn the voucher into MORE FOOD for the kitchen. Make it so ONLY KIDS can use the voucher(if an adult has one-its no good).This will help the people like LJ's sister that help feed these kids and it wont cost an additional $9.5 million.It may be more expensive than the current system but it addresses fraud and isnt just throwing more money at it without addressing the REAL ISSUE!
Now my plan is not flawless(In fact it came right off the top of my head) My point is there is a better way to reform the system WE ALREADY HAVE,instead of throwing money on top of OTHER MONEY to cure the SAME PROBLEM, which is feeding poor kids three meals a day.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagBless you, kingborg.
I don't know much about section 8 housing, aside from a small family home in my neighborho
od that a new owner turned into a section 8 rental in a neighborho od of big older single family Victorian homes. Mid-aftern oon one day I went out to get the mail and a policemen behind one of my trees advised me to get back inside. The street had been sealed off, and as I closed the door a van pulled up and an 8-person SWAT team jumped out and took off in a crouching run with their rifles ready. About 3 dozen various law enforcemen t agency representa tives later, the drug raid was over and the mother and two teenage sons gone. The experience didn't endear section 8 housing to me, but I wouldn't presume to judge on one example. The current family is quite nice, aside from the 2 dustmop dogs that make me think evil thoughts when they're in my yard daily.
kingborg, 5 months ago | Flagas one who donates $50.00 to the red cross every month. i can say i hope it goes where it is needed. i can say with 100% fact that 65% over section 8 housing is abused. i see it every time i goto work. BUT i also know there are familys who do go hungry. i bought food for 2 kids that i knew would not eat that night before.go to the food pantries see how many are turned away. it will shock you. hunger in this country happens and happens EVERYDAY. so i do not wanna hear that you dont think it happens.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagAn apology is due from me to jstol regarding his employment history. I came into this blog site about a month after it started and never saw the old one, so must have missed something. Not too long after I started, he was musing about what his life would have been like and what he could have achieved without the post-traumatic-stress problem after Vietnam. The impression given was that he had come back unable to work. Recently, there was a comment by him talking of several years work at a union job which was thus a surprise. Not having read of any other employment in any other of his comments or profile, the implication was that the stress problem worsened until he was no longer able to work. There is no good way to search old blogs, especially if what you're looking for is a comment on someone else's post. Again, apologies on that front.
With respect to the comments by jstol and odessacon pooh-poohing the notion that anyone in America can possibly be hungry because SO MANY programs and pantries are out there, I rescind nothing.
I have the very good fortune to have a younger sister who is nothing short of a saint. Forgive a long story, but there will be a point to it. After a number of years working in Somalia for World Concern (including regular relief work at a leper colony - the background for my FACTS for an earlier blog), she and her husband returned to the US to live in Salem, Oregon. They CHOSE (despite the urgings of all of us to live in a safer neighborhood), to buy a home in the seamiest part of Salem where they felt they could do the most good.
I have met MANY of the adults and children she works with on a regular basis when we have visited, not because it's her job any longer but because she CARES. She works to help connect adults with drug addictions, involvement with prostitution, etc. with appropriate agencies and programs who can help.
I met a 10-year-old girl named Melissa, whose mother shaved her head regularly because it cost too much for lice control medication. Her shame was in her eyes. Two teenagers she works with were present when a third put a gun to his head and pulled the trigger. My sister had been feeding the dead teen before the accident for some time because his parents were too sunk in alcoholism and drugs. Another girl, Aqua, announced to my sister when she started middle school that she was gay. A year later, she had a baby. They was 13. Only one parent, one who didn't care. One single mother injected herself with rat poison when there was no money for drugs. She died. My sister cooks each night in quantity - plain food, but nutritious, because there are ALWAYS extra heads at her table. Leftovers are non-existent.
Yes, the parents of these particular kids got food stamps and sold them for drugs and alcohol. But what government agencies respond quickly enough to help these children? My sister and her husband manage to get by themselves on what they earn from their jobs. They'd be far better off if they had the added advantage of all the money they earn that they give away to those who are truly needy.
My sister started an afterschool study club and solicited help from teachers and people at her church so that there is tutoring at her home as well as a nutritious snack. Her family attended the graduation ceremony this past spring for 2 of those children who had spent several years at the after school study group. She told me later that night in a phone call that she was as proud as if they had been her own.
One single mom who was trying her hardest with 3 children went to my sister's church - up until the day she died of cancer at just over 30 years of age. I got to know Donna myself, and was with her in the hospital 3 days before she died. My sister tried to adopt the children per Donna's will which had made her their guardian. My husband and I contributed financially to their financiial support. The biological dad heard about it during a visit to townand went to court via a legal aid program. This habitual drug user managed to stay clean for a month - just long enough to convince a judge he could be a good parent. The court and the father all managed to ignore the fact that these kids came to him with extra money from the state for their support. I doubt it ever went to feed them properly. My sister is white and the 3 kids are black - the court decided against my sister because it was felt that the FAMILY (meaning the biological dad who hadn't been bothered with his kids for years) should be kept together at all costs. No one to this day - my sister or the court or social services - has been able to check on the welfare of those kids.
I'm a bit off-topic by now, but I am sick and tired of allegations and criticisms from a couple of you that I have no idea of what I talk about, apparently because because my husband and I have made a good life for ourselves and I've spoken of it on some financial blogs. We've also GIVEN a great deal of our prosperity and our time back to those who need it. When you guys can say the same, I'll give your rants and raves a little more attention.
I have no expectation that anything I say will make any difference to you. The best you achieve with many of your coments is to make me see red. But I do hope that others, especially newcomers, who visit this site can have the opportunity to read the other side of the story, and realize that you two are not the most reasonable voices Kansas City has to offer. The loudest, maybe, but not the most credible.
nemokc, 5 months ago | Flagjstol3:
I don't play poker with children! That's the difference. This program helps children whose parents are either incapable or unwilling to care properly for their children. I may not be pro-life, but I am pro-child!
And yes, I am hard-nosed in business. That does not mean that I have not hired people who have needed a hand up. Sometimes it works out & sometimes it doesn't...same as hiring someone who doesn't need a hand up.
It is very frustrating to me to listen to people condemn all aid programs because of a few abuses (or even a lot of abuses).
I know one person who made bad choices early on. Had a kid at 16 and another at 19. Single mom who used every government program she could for help. Through the government she recieved welfare, food stamps, housing help and school aid. She got every dime she could get out of the government. And she will tell you it was not enough! She worked, went to school and had neighbors babysitting her kids.
She graduated with a degree, worked in a law firm for many years (with ladyjean I believe) and is now part owner of her own company.
None of that would have been possible without government assistance. The system gave her a chance, the same way that it gives many Americans a chance. What do you say to her? How was she to do this without that help? Should we have abandoned her?
I have unbelievable admiration and love for this woman who worked so hard to beat the odds. (And as a poker player I can respect those odds) I've lived with her for 20 years now!
nemokc, 5 months ago | Flagjstol3:
Did you by any chance contact any food pantries to see if they are having problems meeting the increased needs put upon them by the recession?
This is an area that I volunteer in and I see huge need all the time! We can argue whether you can or cannot feed a family just on food stamps, but reality is that there are many people still in need in the state.
Bottom line, the program that is being discussed is a good program:
1) It serves a huge need
2) It does so in cooperation with government and the private sector.
3) It is highly cost effective
4) It is a safety net for the children of the people you claim are in trouble because of their own actions (be it choosing the wrong man or work ethics or cheats or what ever) But if you insist that people are "using" the system, I don't understand why you would object to a program that feeds children whose parents are either incapable or unwilling to do so themselves.
Do we just abandon these children?
Odessacon, 5 months ago | Flagbout a part time job? 20 hrs a week at $6.00/ an hr-She will take home $1000.00 a week.She gets subsidised housing(rent according to income IF ANY AT ALL!)Electric bill is also subsidised(many power companies offer programs and there are government programs.
Hey shes not getting rich and things are rough but as far as poor goes she has the basics +.
Are you guys suggesting we see to it that she is entitled to a certain quality of life ABOVE what Ive SHOWN to be available???? If so-what exactly is that criteria?????Internet service? Cell phone? Cable T.V?
Does this not encourage GENERATIONAL welfare and bad life choices????? If we dont sacrifice-we dont grow as people.Look at the areas GENERATIONALLY DEPENDENT on asst,Do they grow? Do they stay stuck in the system?
IM NOT SAYING IT EASY,All Im saying is with the programs we have NOW its pretty hard to be "hungry".What do we do to stop the generational aspect of the problem? Is that doing the kids any justice?
ON jstol, He earned his benefits.Many of the people we are talking about have done LITTLE MORE than be born here and made BAD CHOICES to put them in this predicerment! I know you dont want to admit it but thats a fact!I understand the argument you were making......but it doesnt speak well of you LJ!If you cant see the difference or the REALITIES we are trying to point out to you.....thats on you! It was low blow because you had no REAL FACTS to back up your viewpoint but were obviosly frustrated just the same.So you tried to draw a connection to jstol and what we are talking about......Nice try.
jstol3, 5 months ago | FlagOne more set of comments on this blog.
My original comment said that children is this country should not be going hungry. Should is the operative word here. We have a lot of programs to make sure that they don't. I don't have a problem with the programs. I have a problem with the mis-use and fraud. If you put the means to feed the child into the hands of a designated responsible adult and the child is still hungry whose fault is it? I say it is the fault of the adult who didn't provide for the child after he was given the means to do so. Charge him or her with child neglect.
nemo -
You are intellectually dishonest because you refuse to assign blame where blame belongs.
I know this about you: You are a poker player. If you play poker like you suggest we run our society I sure that you seldom take home any winnings because you would have to give the winnings back out of pity for the loser's family. I also know that you are a hard-nosed interviewer when you have to hire someone. Why don't you apply the same principles to hiring people as you want to apply to society as a whole - just hire the first one in the door because they "need the job". I'll tell you why you don't - you don't because you know that approach to hiring won't work. You said so yourself!
Be Strong -
I could jab a figurative stick into your figurative eye but I won't. It would be beneath me. I remember when your attitude began to change and I remember why.
Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagI grew up in a very poor neighborhood in St.louis.I saw the abuse FIRST HAND AND IT WAS WIDESPREAD! How much do YOU REALLY KNOW about that side of town?????????Ive lived in it and believe what you want IM NOT EXAGGERATING!
No one,not me or jstol are saying to abolish the food stamp or asst programs.EVERYONE should be able to agree that many of these programs are redundant AND ABUSED!!!!!!!! Alittle reform....maybe?????????
As far as my menu goes......Substitute one of the veggies with fruit for supper or is that TOO hard for folks to figure out?FRESH veggies/fruit??????? As far as Im concerned they have the same vitamins and nutrients but there again a little planning goes a long way. First you guys say you CAN be hungry in America(fully meaning malnurished) and I PROVE you can get THREE MEALS A DAY FOR A FAMILY OF FOUR and you guys still arent happy and then start talking about how they pay their bills!!!!!!!GOVERNMENT HOUSING AND UTILITIES ASST PROGRAMS.BY LAW companies cant shut off heating oil or electric on a family if they have kids EVEN IF THEY CANT PAY FOR IT.
How many Americans families follow the FDA reccomended nutrition chart to a T????LOL, Come on!
Bottom line: Your compassion is admirable but to suggest that people go hungry after eating 3 meals a day is rediculous!(BTW The sugar is for sweetening the oatmeal,even though its flavored and for kool-aid enough for 1 gal a day!What you dont buy sugar??)And to suggest they are forced to live in the streets or without heat..........IS JUST PLAIN WRONG!!!!!!!!If you think its ok for a Mom to NOT HAVE TO MAKE TOUGH DECISIONS AND SACRIFICE BECAUSE SHE CHOSE THE WRONG GUY TO HAVE KIDS WITH IS REDICULOUS!!!!!We should just let her sit at home and fund her whole life becasue of bad choices?????? We ALREADY ARE willing to buy most IF NOT ALL of thier food and provide housing for them.....just when is it you guys think she should have to kick in a little besides raising her kids? We all work AND raise our kids!
jstol3, 5 months ago | FlagLJ -
Thanks for your comments. If you don't look where you're stepping it might just be in doo-doo.
I sarted working at 15, went in the Army at 17, got out at 25 and worked continuously until just shy of my 63rd birthday. I guess that's 48 years that I worked. I managed to raise 2 families during those years.
What do I eat? Probably the same things you do. Meat, veggies, fruit, bread, pasta, sandwiches, pork chops, etc. I cook at home - can't afford to go out and eat but once or twice a month and always fast food. You've got me on the milk though, darn it! I'm lactose intolerant!
The fact is, LJ, I don't want any kids to be hungry. You just don't want to read that when I write that with the abundance of food stamps, food pantries, other entitlements and work no child should be going hungry.
You WANT to see hate in what I write so that's what you see, isn't it?
In one blog you agree that earned entitlements are not the same issue as unearned entitlements but when it suits your purposes you choose to attack me on earned entitlements. Like I said - I raised two families so I'm used to dealing with children - they frequently throw tantrums when they can't get their own way.
The difference is that you are an adult.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagFurthermore, Ode, when you're a single parent with several kids, how in heaven's name do you work your part-time job at McDonald's for minimum wage without child care? The poorest care around would cost more than you make. Are there buses running? Because if you had the money to drive, as BeStong noted, you wouldn't be in this situation in the first place. Bus money reduces what you make even more. Or perhaps they should walk several miles each way if no other transportation is available and that's the only job they can get?
Or do you want them to work at night when the kids are asleep, so they don't have to pay for child care? I'm sure you'd be one of the first to condemn that same parent if the apartment went up in smoke while they were at work and the kids died.
You need to get off your computer for a while. Take off the blinkers, walk around a poor neighborhood for an afternoon, and actually TALK to the people you seem to know so much about. Sorry - I guess you'd have to leave the air conditioning behind to do that, to actually acknowledge there is real misery beyond the invisible fence you've surrounded yourself with.
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagOde - As the daughter, wife, AND mother of men who have served this country (including Vietnam), I have expressed gratitude for jstol's service on more than one past comment, esp. around Memorial Day. I can't remember if he was drafted or signed up voluntarily, but irregardless, he went where he was told and followed orders. And yes, his life was at risk, which most jobs don't require.
My point in my original comment is that jstol likes to play fast and loose with the Vietnam vet background as it suits him. We're asked to be sympathetic that it left him with lasting emotional problems and he hasn't been able to work. We're ask to nod approvingly that he is provided for by whatever assistance programs he qualifies for. After all, he EARNED them.
And because he spent at least several years employed in his life thus far, he sets himself up as judge, jury, and executioner for everyone else who qualifies for public assistance. We've listened to his story and agree that yes, he's earned what he qualifies for and is provided with. But he doesn't extend the same coutesy to others, just smugly announces there is no reason for anyone in America to be hungry.
He is not simply saying that there are many people abusing assistance programs. He has been saying that there should be NO SUCH THING AS HUNGER IN THIS COUNTRY because there are so many programs available.
Every individual has a unique story, but he's not willing to consider the stories of others and how circumstances beyond their control (just like his circumstances were beyond his control) can also qualify them for assistance without it being due to fraud or laziness.
There is plenty of fraud and abuse wherever you go. Those of us who know there is great need even in America are not stupid. But these blanket generalizations belittle all of you who stoop to them. They are unworthy of Christians, Republicans, Democrats.....any Americans.
The discussion was hunger, not starvation. Hunger is a far cry from starvation. But likewide having enough to eat is a far cry from being hungry.
Your sample grocery list is appalling - "NUTRITIOUS MEALS AND PLENTY OF THEM"? I hope you live with someone who has better dietary sense than you do or you won't be around to blog much longer. There are no fresh fruits or vegetables (no fruit period), the fat and sodium content of bacon, ground beef, hot dogs, and hamburger helper is obscene, and where Kool-aid and the giant bag of sugar fit into the picture I have no idea. I guess your hypothetical family will have to stick to the milk, bread, and meal after meal after meal of plain beef patties and hope for the best.
But you and jstol can sleep soundly in the secure conviction that they are not starving. Hungry and in need of some real nutrition, but not starving.
nemokc, 5 months ago | FlagLots of comments on this. Let's look at a few.
Odessacon says:
"its unreasonable to attack a VETERAN that WAS INJURED fighting for our freedom when he is pointing out the REALITY that many of our social programs are abused by people that have never held a job for any substantial period of time and sure as hell havent faught on a battlefield for their country."
Your veteran has NO problem attacking anyone for anything he feels like...so I don't think Ladyjean's comments are in ANY way out of line. He's a big boy!
Do some people abuse social programs? Of course. The question then becomes two-fold:
1) How many people abuse these programs? (If you listen to the Right it is an epidemic with ALL participants in these programs out to get something they don't deserve) I think those cheats become an easy salve for your conscious. It's easier to think about all of the people cheating the system than to think about the majority that NEED help from the system. (And I think they are probably fewer than you would have us believe)
2) Even if the adults DO abuse the program....what do we do about the children. Again, this comes back to Pro-Lifers more concerned about the quality of life before birth rather than after the birth. (Note: Rep. Davis was appointed chair of this committee by the House Speaker BECAUSE of her strong pro-life stance.)
Actually, if you believe that adults are abusing food stamps, then you should really support this summer program. It feeds all those kids whose parents you say are selling food stamps and NOT putting food on the table.
Jstol says I'm intellectually dishonest because I post a picture of a child while talking about 16 year olds. But the intellectually dishonest ones here are jstol3 and Rep. Davis who take a program designed to feed all children up to the age of 18 and trash it because kids at the upper end of the age limit could get jobs.
I agree that kids can (& should) get jobs. But this program is an example of how government CAN work efficently and be of help to it's citizens. 3.7 million meals is a lot of feeding for very little investment. And the facts are simple....most of the kids on this program are too young to get jobs. So we cut the program feeding kids like the one I pictured because older kids can get fed at McDonalds.
And yes, it is possible to eat & survive on food stamps. But this program is an important aid to many Missourians who both work and are on food stamps. (And that's a dirty little secret about food stamps....most of the people on them also have jobs. It's just a $10/hour job for 40 hours a week doesn't buy much food when you also have to pay for rent, clothes, utilities, etc for a family of 4. In many cases this program feeds kids while there parents are working during the day...something that the school does at other times of the year.
Bottom line, Rep. Davis is disgusting for her attitude and her legislation! She also should NOT be chairing the state's committee on Children & Families if she knows so little about the issues that affect children & families in our state.
Odessacon, 5 months ago | FlagOK,first off its unreasonable to attack a VETERAN that WAS INJURED fighting for our freedom when he is pointing out the REALITY that many of our social programs are abused by people that have never held a job for any substantial period of time and sure as hell havent faught on a battlefield for their country.
The situation Lj tells us about is sad,but is it really a good example of a family doing all they can and still cany make ends meet?NO!
The Dad walked out on the kids and left Mom holding the bag. Does that mean we just let them starve??HELL NO!
You can get $668.00? for food stamps for a family of 4
This is for those of you that let YOUR FEELINGS get in the way of facts......:
Keep in mind these prices are from my local grocer and they are the only game in town and are consistanlty HIGHER PRICED than wal-mart.
1.6lb(80%lean ground chuck)$5.33ea(one for EVERY night of week)$37.31
hamberger helper$3.00/box-(2 boxes a day)$42.00/wk
can of veggies($1.00 can)4 cans at dinner...$28.00 wk
4 dozen eggs ($1.25 dz)....$5.00 wk
2 lb bacon($3.00 lb)....$6.00 wk
5 gal milk($4.00 gal).....$20.00 wk
25lb bag of sugar.....$15.00
kool aid $3.00 wk
Flavored oatmeal($2.00 box)...$10.00 wk
hot dogs(lunches) ($1.00 package).....$5.00 wk
5 loaves of bread($2.00 loaf).......$10.00 wk
TOTAL:$186.00wk food stamps=$187.00 wk(@$668.00-nemos quote)You have a dollar left over for a candy treat for the kids!
This does not count pantries, having some leftovers to eat,the REDUCED PRICE on some items for food stamp recipients or the fact that the sugar and oatmeal will go further than a week.
Its not steak,its not gormet........but it SURE AS HELL ISNT EVEN CLOSE TO STARVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You may have to plan and budget but it sure aint starving.
If you want shampoo and toiletries-i suggest they find a part time job for those things.you could easily pay for those items even if you ONLY worked 8 to 10 hrs a week!($48.00 to $60.00 @ $6.00/hr).The government provides housing for people in these situations.
I gave us some FACTS to think about-Im curious to hear your responses.Ive covered nutritious meals and plenty of them.Will we now debate that people shouldnt be FORCED to exist on hamburger helper????LOL
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagJstol - So your personal EXPERIENCE tells you there should be no hunger in America? Sounds more like one single individual (you) extrapolating his "experience" into a FEELING. But that can't be right, because you HATE feelings. You want FACTS, anyday.
So, since internet research can't exactly prove/disprove your claim, how about sharing your weekly grocery bill with us? What you bought for your $20-#25 a week to feed yourself. And feel free to indicate how that translates into meals. How many a day, and what are they comprised of? Just the FACTS, mind you, so we can all evaluate them. Then be sure to let us all know how the per person food stamp allotment works for growing children who need milk at $2.50 a gallon, bread at $1.50 a loaf, protein, etc. You also have to allow for basic health needs like soap, toilet paper, shampoo, etc. as well.
For someone who has such an abhorance of entitlements, you certainly get around and use them. Let's see - I remember you get Social Security, you've just mentioned the food stamps at some period that were "waaaaay" more than you needed (I assume you gave back what you didn't need, right?), a small veteran's check, and you are actively working to get another you feel you are not rightfully getting.
You mentioned not long after I first joined Fox4's blog site that you've often wondered how your life might have been different if you had worked all those past years. Apart from the Vietnam service, you've mentioned a stint in industry as a union member. Any I've missed? The statement you made was that you haven't been able to work for many years because of Nam-related post-traumatic stress.
Anyway, considering the time and effort you put into blogging, it seems like you would have been and still are pretty capable of a computer-related desk job, at home if not on-site. And no need for all the entitlements you are so convinced you earned but others shouldn't receive.
A disability is no fault of yours, and poverty is not the fault of many who live it. It is FAR more than a "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality.
I regret the need to have used your own shared stories of vulnerability against you, but your mental blindness, self-righteousness, and hypocrisy with respect to the poor and hungry in America asked for it.
jstol3, 5 months ago | Flagnemo -
This blog is intellectu
ally dishonest (Rep Davis mentions getting a job by 16 and you show a child of, maybe 5?). What is wrong with working at McDonalds?
Are you saying that people should not work or eat there? Are you saying that people should not cook nutritious
meals at home? Are you saying that people should not learn how to cook?
Are you saying that eating potato chips is superior to eating nutritious
food? Are you saying that with a combinatio
n of food pantries, food stamps and work people will still go hungry? I generally spend between $20.00 - $25.00 per week for food. I eat as well as I need to. The one time I did receive food stamps I got over $160.00 in stamps per month. It was waaaaay more than I needed!
My personal EXPERIENCE
tells me that there should not be hunger in America today!
A former member , 5 months ago | FlagI will bet she is a Republican
, what would you expect. take food from the poor and give tax breaks to her big money supporters ...typical treat the ones that wouldnt vote for you like they dont deserve to vote at all.
nemokc, 5 months ago | FlagIf you have never had to experience
living on food stamps, I invite you to read Sean Callebs blog at CNN. He spent a month trying to live on food stamps. He blogged about it daily. It is an interestin g and scary look at a world that most of us have never had to experience .
ladyjean, 5 months ago | FlagI am outraged whenever anyone tries to say there is no such thing as hunger in America. They point to high obesity rates in the poor as an example, piously intoning that fat people don't starve.
Have you ever taken a good look at the price of fresh meats, fruits, and vegetables in grocery stores? No wonder those with limited means fill their baskets with junk - that huge bag of chips for just 99 cents might not be healthy, but it's a lot more filling than the single apple or head of lettuce that costs even more.
There are those who simply overeat regardless of the price of their food. But there are plenty of folk who can't afford even the most basic healthy foods. Those who make generalizations that people are too lazy to work should try living the lives they scorn for a week or two and they'd change their tune fast enough.
I headed a Christmas drive one year through the law firm I worked for. I had contacted a social service agency for the name and details of a needy family. We raised several thousand dollars in donations from employees at the firm, far more than we had anticipated. Several of us spent an entire Saturday shopping for the family, armed with sizes and a meager "wish list" the social worker had obtained from the mother. We bought basic clothing like sweaters/coats/hats/mittens, food for a wonderful Christmas dinner plus about a month's worth of non-perishables, and toys for the kids. It took three cars to deliver everything.
The mother and 3 kids lived in a ratty housing project not far past the Paseo Bridge. There was nothing to sit on in the apartment but cardboard boxes. The mother's husband got bored with his responsibilities and up and left their home one day. She had to quit her job because child care cost more than she earned. She lost their apartment because she couldn't pay for it, and was homeless until she managed to get into the project apartment on government aid.
The afternoon we brought the gifts and food over, she cried the entire time. The kids were huddled in a corner, their eyes huge. One of the male associates from the firm took charge of putting away the non-perishables in the cupboard. He told me later there was scarcely anything in it.
The mother cried while we were there. I cried all that night.
It is the utmost in self-righteous arrogance to sit in your own home with a steady paycheck or Social Security and pontificate about how if there are hungry in this country, it is because they are lazy. Such people need to take a trip out of their comfort zone and get a look at the real America. There are plenty of those who take advantage of social programs, but there are just as many, if not more, who truly need help. And it is a moral crime to ignore the truly needy simply because others can turn poverty into a scam.
Rep. Cynthia Davis needs to get out of her Christian bookstore, away from her numerous committees, and take a long hard look at the seamier side of Missouri. Oops, I forgot. She might get her cute pink outfit dirty, not to mention her hands.
nemokc, 5 months ago | Flagjstol3:
The comments made by Rep. Davis were regarding a SUMMER program that feeds school kids when school is out. So, who cares that we offer free lunches during the school year? Should we tell growing children to just stop eating until September?
Why do children go to bed hungry at night? For many reasons.
Sometimes it's because the parents just can't make ends meet. If you think there is plenty of food available for the hungry because of food pantries...you are gravely mistaken. Call any food pantry in the metro area and ask them if they are able to keep up with demand.
As to food stamps, a family of four is entitled to $668 per month for food stamps. That's roughly $5.57 per person per day. (Try keeping a 10 year old in milk for that.) Any idea how many people go to the city market each weekend because they accept food stamps and it lets them buy the cheapest fresh vegetables? It's many more than you would think. Not all receipients of benefits are shiftless.
Do some parents sell their food stamps or the food from the pantries? Probably. So then the question becomes, what do these bad parents feed thier children? And while they are bad parents...do we allow the children to starve? (I realize everyone on this site is pro-life...I just wish they were as concerned about the children after birth as they are about the fetus before birth.)
If you truly believe that
"Poverty in America is now not owning a summer home and not being able to vacation in Europe."
I have met several vets through food pantries that might like to show you thier "summer home".
Even I know that this woman is not the typical Republican. She's something else entirely and should be one representative that we can all agree needs to go away!
jstol3, 5 months ago | FlagOk, nemo, I take your blog at face value. There are food stamps (now EBT cards) and, as you pointed out in your blog, free lunches in school.
Why do children and their parents go to bed hungry at night? What becomes of the food stamps. What becomes of free lunches? What becomes of all of the food available at pantries?
Why do people go to bed hungry at night? How can people go to bed hungry at night with all of the resources available to them? Where is the money from jobs going?
This kind of blog sounds to me like "I sold my food stamps on the black market, I don't work because I'm lazy and I sold the stuff the food pantry gave me". What they sold it for is immaterial
. No one should be going to bed hungry in America! We have the biggest giveaway show on earth! Poverty and hunger no longer go hand in hand!
Poverty in America is now not owning a summer home and not being able to vacation in Europe.
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